In a world where resilience often emerges from the most challenging circumstances, Kai’s story shines as a profound reminder of the strength and transformation that supportive environments can foster. At Pearl Haven, a sanctuary for those healing from the trauma of sexual abuse and exploitation, Kai discovered the transformative powers of support, trust, and forgiveness, marking the start of her remarkable path to healing and renewal.

Coming from a small town, Kai grew up relying only on herself amidst numerous challenges and often resorting to negative coping mechanisms amidst constant trouble. Kai’s transformation began when she arrived at Pearl Haven. Here, she found a sanctuary that offered more than just refuge; it provided a community of support.

“When I came here, I actually was more trusting since I have so much support and so many people on my team,” she shares. It was here that she learned the importance of trust—not just in others but in the process of healing itself. Surrounded by a team dedicated to her well-being, she realized she no longer had to face her battles alone. 

Reconnecting with family has been a pivotal part of her healing journey. While communication with her father remains limited, Kai has cherished the renewed relationships with her siblings and the steady support from her mother. “It was such a blessing to see my brother and sister again,” she says, revealing the emotional reunions that have punctuated her time at Pearl Haven.

Academically, Kai has soared beyond expectations. Transitioning to a new school on the Big Island, she is poised to graduate this year with a 4.0 GPA—an achievement that once seemed unreachable. “I worked my butt off to see those grades,” Kai admits proudly, her voice tinged with the satisfaction of overcoming her academic challenges.

At the heart of Kai’s story is the theme of forgiveness—forgiving those who have hurt her and forgiving herself. Through her time at Pearl Haven, she has engaged deeply with this process, focusing on personal healing to prepare for her future. “My story was really about forgiveness and just focusing on healing to get where you need to be on the other side,” she explains.

Kai’s journey powerfully embodies the mission of Ho‘ola Na Pua—to forge paths to healing and renewal for those who have endured unimaginable adversities, enabling them to not only survive but to thrive as empowered individuals. Kai’s story vividly demonstrates the significant role of holistic care in recovery and the enduring strength that a nurturing community provides. 

As Kai embarks on a new beginning on the Big Island, her story continues to inspire, resonating with the promise of healing and a hopeful, brighter future.